Now please understand, we all want to have a perfect relationship that has eternal bliss and longevity, but nothing this wonderful ever comes easy. Both parties must work at it with due diligence. This is a work that never ends, but is to be continuous, to maintain the success of the relationship.
Sometimes the occasional sorry not tonight dear, I have a head ache, is an action that leads to not only to the valley of temptation but to the arms of the other woman, or other man. Retreating from your spouse or significant other is treading on dangerous waters, despite the fact that you may feel that you need space. Consider this, how can you expect to keep a relationship burning with passion and desire, if you keep dousing the relationship with waters of rejection or unavailability?
The unfortunate problem in relationships is that some have taken their vows of commitment and love, and feel that there is nothing more needed or necessary for them to do to enhance the relationship. I’ve once heard a man say “I’ve married her- what more does she what from me?” To some they feel that because they have signed the dotted line on the marriage license, their ultimate marital duties are done, when in reality, they’ve just begun.
Love is a risk and the heart is vulnerable when one opens the doors to love.
Love is a gift that two people give each other freely. So, the most courageous thing a person who falls out of love can do is to let the other person know, instead of causing further sorrow upon sorrow, by trying to keep the best of both worlds’ hidden under the cloak of secrecy. There is no easy way to say good-bye, and yes it does cause great pain, but it’s better than reading it in tomorrow’s paper.
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