As we all know, men are hunters by nature. Men are the ones that lead the romance dance, but what do you do when you find yourself in a situation with a man who, at the beginning of the chase, seemed to be “so into you,” then you suddenly find that you are not being chased anymore?
Understandably, you want answers. Where did all the exuberance go that was in the beginning of this relationship? When men seek after women, they seek for two reasons only. The first is that they are looking truly for their life-long partner, which is the other half of himself that completes him.
Secondly, they are in the chase for the complete “thrill and exhilaration” of the chase, and for them it is merely just a game. In this particular case, they have no intentions whatsoever of building a long lasting relationship that is built completely on love, trust and commitment. This is why in this case, that most women seem to find that love and commitment seems to elude them. They have come across a man, in the relationship that was only in for the complete thrill of it all, and for the joy ride. Even if that joy ride may last for several years.
The first man, that is seeking for that heart-felt love and soul connection, is completely dead serious about the relationships. He is ready to cross over into marital love and bliss with full-on commitment. The only thing that could possibly turn this man around – where he goes in the opposite direction is that he finds something in the relationship that has lost its value- or its luster.
He now no longer feels that the chase (lets correct that- the woman that he is chasing after is worth it any longer). At this point he will throw in the towel. Free to subscribe to Bella Petite!
Unfortunately, if the woman is crazy for the guy, really into this person, she will then pick up the falling towel, and try to speed with accuracy to the finish line. The only problem is the fact that women are not hunters, they don’t have built inside of their DNA, to be the ones who strategically, and masterfully captures their prey. Women have a total set of other female strategies that work for this. So unfortunately what happens now is you have a woman that is chasing after a man.
The man now plays hard to get, and toys with the woman and her emotions and affections. When women love, they love hard and they love long. It takes a lot for a woman to retreat, especially when it comes to the emotions that have been formed in her heart.
As complicated as this mouse and cat game sound, it definitely is not for the faint-hearted. If a man has truly lost interest in a woman, he simply diverts his attention, and moves on. If a woman, played to hard to get, he could just merely give up, because he feels it’s no longer worth the effort, despite the fact that he may like the challenge. His attention span will quickly look for someone else to chase after.
Most men do take the time for pursuable relationships. They immediately have a notion, whether or not this woman is going to be worth the chase. If the woman shows some interest, for the man – the sky is the limit in his attempts to pursue her. He is not only driven by passion and desire, but also by an insatiable desire to win. To catch her as (a hunter) to his prey, this too becomes an incredible driving force.
On the other side of the coin – women, love to be chased and pursued. They want to see that a man is willing to do absolutely anything and everything to win her affections. The problem is when women get too puffed up in the race they forget the true reason of this guy’s display of utter affection. Then they find this poor guy now as something to coyly play with, like a kitten with a ball of yarn.
Now if a woman really likes the man that is chasing her- if she wants him, the only thing that signifies that is that she has to stop running, and he will indeed catch her.
To sum it up, if the relationship is of true worth and value, both parties, will start to bond together, finding that mutual ground of respect, love and commitment, and the “Chase Ends,” because they have truly found each other. Free to subscribe to Bella Petite!
Author: Candace Chambers-Belida Copyright 2012 ©Candace Chambers-Belida “The Loveista” – Relationship Expert
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