The Break-Up Keep It Simple Keep It Sweet Love-A-Licious! [Relationships] [Dating] Part II
The Break-Up Love-A-Licious Candace Chambers-Belida
Acceptance is important in the break-up. Accepting that the relationship is no longer meeting each other’s needs, that its time to walk away from each other, with different directions and purpose. Again, everything in life is subject to change. And people’s hearts have a tendency to change as well.
You can’t make some one stay when they want to go, and begging for love is never an option, if it’s suppose to be true love, the feeling would be reciprocated and mutual. Some people would rather have love at all cost, even when true love is not really present.
The fear of being alone sometimes causes a person to settle for any level of love that is given. A wise saying, unless two agree they cannot walk together. Agreeing to love and being together is a key answer for longevity in a relationship.
The question is can you handle the fact that someone has changed their emotional feelings toward you? Can you respect their free choice of free will to leave? I realize again that this aspect is painful but why would anyone in the world want to be with someone that does not feel the same way for them, and also desiring them in the same capacity and manner.
Make peace with yourself and remember the relationship and the value that was added to your life through that person. This alone is quiet significant. You have become stronger, wiser, and better. There is a learning curve, in every experience in life that we undergo. So remember the good side of the relationship, the memories that were shared, and the good that was found in the relationship that captured your attention in the beginning and with courage move forward.
To move forward forgiveness and acceptance are married to one another and this will make the transition much easier. Fear and anger, can cause hatred and bitterness, resulting in harmful situations, and its best to let these go.
It’s important to recognize that a breakup, doesn’t have to resort to nasty fights, and bitter words. A breakup if at all possible can be handled in a mature and amicable way. There is no reason to turn to violence or hatred or revenge. If there is any bitterness, it is best to let go of it completely, so that it doesn’t paralyze your future emotions and future relationships. Keeping it simple and sweet and to the point without unnecessary drama is a mature way to handle any break-up. Solve it in your heart first, then in your mind and right actions are true to follow. Keep your head together, this too shall soon pass. The Breakup Part 1 Love-A-Licious
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